Today I'm thankful for....

1. The way Liam says "conscuse me" instead of "excuse me."  It makes me smile and laugh inside every time I hear him say it.  I know I'll miss it when the day comes that he figures out how to say it the right way.

2. Kettlebells.  They make me sore in all the right places.  A few weeks ago I did 500 kettlebell swings during class.  Today we were swinging and squatting, and doing burpees in between.  It feels great!

3. Summer Vacation!  Lillian had her last day of school yesterday.  She's officially done with second grade!  I'm most excited because I don't have to pack a school lunch for the next two months!  Or go to the bus stop twice a day.  Or remember to sign the homework and reading logs.  Or help with homework, presentations, and writing assignments.  Or remind Lillian to do all of her homework, presentations, and writing assignments. Or drop her snack off at the front office when she forgets it at home.  I LOVE summer vacation!  :-)

And YAY for Lillian for doing an awesome job in second grade!  She learned so much this year. In math- counting money, telling time, adding and subtracting big numbers in a million different ways that I never knew existed (some of which still don't make sense to me...the way they teach math these days is just weird), solving countless word problems about stickers; it's not always her favorite subject, but she does well in math.  In reading she progressed so much.  It's amazing to hear her read out loud, and she even started reading Harry Potter recently.  She also started Spanish this year and was part of a Spanish play called "Animales Internacionales" put on by the entire second grade.  In science she did weight and motion, grew plants, watched caterpillars morph into butterflies, and lots of other stuff.  She really likes doing science experiments and exploring things.  I want to cultivate this interest within her.  In social studies she learned maps just like Grandpa Barker. :-)  She also learned about Harriet Tubman and her work in the underground railroad, and she dressed up as Susan B. Anthony for the Second Grade Wax Museum.  It was a busy, fun, and productive year.  Here's to a wonderful third grade year as well!

4. Swimming at the pool, even though it was freezing.  I packed a picnic dinner and we ate on towels in the grass at pool-side.  The kids were so cold after swimming that Sydney was shaking so hard she could hardly hold her fork still enough to stab her food, and Liam was wrapped up so tight in his blanket that he couldn't get his arms out so I fed him all his food.  Despite the cold they had such a good time.  Lillian even got back in the water twice after drying off.  Liam is still a little fish who loves getting wet and going under water.  He can now float on his back, which he is very proud of.  Sydney was tickled pink that she could touch the bottom with her toes and keep her head above water at the same time.  It's proof that she's growing!  :)  I look forward to getting into the water with them all summer long!

5. Quiet, uninterrupted time to sort through boring stacks of paper.  My desk and the surrounding area are being overrun by papers and clutter piles.  A dear friend watched Sydney and Liam for me while Lillian was at a birthday party so I could sort, file, shred, and organize in peace.

6. Bedtime with Daddy.  Bobby has been away a lot the past two and a half months.  He's rotating in Baltimore again, which means he's only home on weekends (unless he's on call) and maybe one other night during the week.  Last year Lillian had a hard time with this and her stomach would often hurt around bedtime.  This year, it's Sydney's turn to have a hard time.  When she gets sad or upset, she will often burst into tears and cry out, "I want DADDY!!!!"  When she misbehaves or throws a fit, the excuse for her behavior is, "I just miss Daddy," and it's usually accompanied by a very pouty-looking face.  She frequently asks when Daddy will be home or if he's on call.

At bedtime I see it the most.  She feels unsettled, needs a lot of comfort items around her, and makes a lot of requests for things like her special blanket from Grandma BB and Grandma Rita, foot rubs, a back scratch, eye massage, leg rubs because she has growing pains, a drink of water, her Moon Book (that lights up), the lights on more, the lights on less; she wants me to lay with her, sing her a song; she wants to lay in my bed, she has to go to the bathroom.....it takes her for.ev.er to fall asleep.  She used to always be the first one asleep, but since Bobby has been gone she's usually the last.  I guess it could be attributed to her developmental stage and is 'just a part of growing up,' but my hunch is that it's because she misses her daddy.  When he's around she snuggles with him more than she ever has, and I often catch her giving him surprise kisses on his cheeks.  Bobby of course soaks it up as much as he can, which he should.  Winning Sydney's love and affection is no easy task, and it's definitely something to cherish.

7. And speaking of bedtime and children sleeping...I love it when all three of them fall asleep in my bed and when I go in to check on them, they are laying all over the place and all over each other.  Sydney will have a leg draped over Liam, whose head will be on Lillian, whose arm will be across Liam's face.  I don't know how they sleep like that, but it cracks me up.  My little angels asleep in a heap.

Today I'm thankful for...

1. 6 months and applesauce.  Liam turned 6 months last week and he started "solid" (not really so solid, if you ask me) food on Friday.  I don't think you can really call it eating, though- he just makes funny faces when he tastes the food, gags a little, then spits most of it back out.  We're still working on the whole swallow thing.  Either way, it's fun to see his big sisters try to feed him, too.  I have to keep a watchful eye out and remind them (Sydney especially) not to shove the spoon in his mouth.  Bless them and their enthusiasm to help.  :)  Here's a little video I took for Grandpa during Liam's first feeding.

 

My 6-month little guy!

2. Sydney's afternoon nap.  Sydney used to take 2-3 hour naps like a champ every day.  Now that we've exiled her baboo, however, she refuses to take them.  She pitched a huge fit this afternoon when I put my foot down like a good mom and insisted that she take a nap.  It took about half an hour to calm her down and get her to sleep.  Liam happened to be napping at the same time, so I laid down with Sydney to take a nap, too.  Lucky me!  About 10 minutes later, though, Liam woke up and my nap went out the window.  Then I realized that I had to leave in about 15 minutes to get Lillian from school.  That meant I would have to wake Sydney up from her nap (the one that I worked so hard to get her to take), and she would probably be totally cranky from waking up too soon.  I was not looking forward to this when Bobby called and said he could pick Lillian up from school so Sydney could finish her nap.  Hallelujah!  Thank you, thank you, Bobby.  Sydney slept until 4pm just like the good ole' days with the baboo.  Of course, it came back to bite me tonight when she was a nightmare to get to bed because she wasn't tired.  Oh, well.  You take what you get, when you get it.

3. Bed time.  It was a painful process to get all three kids to bed tonight.  I was grumpy, so they were grumpy, which made me grumpier...and thus went 'round the vicious cycle.  Liam was cranky and needed attention.  Sydney wasn't tired and she decided to refine her stubborn disobedience by not listening to a dang thing I told her.  And Lillian just had an emotional breakdown.  After nearly two and a half hours of getting in and out of bed, multiple trips to the bathroom, requests for medicine for varying ailments, bed-hopping, crying, baboo-back-in-mouth, holding, bouncing, mobile on, mobile off, complaining, fears calmed, comforting, night lights on....anyways, they all finally fell asleep.  Phew!  After a therapeutic pep talk from Bobby over the phone I am feeling much better.  The only other thing that will help me feel even better is getting a decent night's sleep, so I'm signing off for now.  Buenas noches!  Que te duermes con los angelitos!